Myspace horror story please forgive the lenght i felt personal about this one lol!

[nekeba channell]

hello all this is just something I have to get off my chest about dating on my space and this has happen more then once now keep in mind I’m a nice chick college educated and know what I want when I see it but before I begin please excuse any run-ons or quotation issues this is just me talking not a mid term paper lmao, well let me start with a guy I met on my space and I’m sorry I do use this persons actual name for the purpose to protect any other female out there willing to fall for his all inclusive game also any knock off guys that my appear to be carrying the same weak game . it started when i was stationed in Germany i got a friend request from a guy by the name of Chris Denton screw it if the name is a bit off lol!! he seemed like an all around wonderful friend to talk to and from that point forward we where inseparable we did not talk all the time but quite often although this guy had girlfriends he would mildly flirt with me but who dose not flirt on my space you can be anything you want to be I flirt back but nothing big but when I found out he actually had a girl I halted and just spoke as friends I gave this guy advice and even helped him reconnect back with his girl after a while five years passes that we had known each other me going through a separation and Chris losing his girlfriend which the story was she was to blame but there is always two sides to every coin little did i know but anyways we did get closer in the form of liking each other very much where we would be texting each other every day with him being bar non the most romantic selfless man I have ever meet and the yrs just defined it for me not to mention web cam-in maybe once every other week I completely respected the fact that he had two jobs and worked hard recently after five yrs we had finally set up at date to go see each other in person he spoke on the lines of telling his friends and family about me along with his roommates I felt special lol! I also told my friends and family of him as well and they where excited for me so as of may 24th 2009 i was off to see my so called prince charming and when I say that word now I laugh with discuss the first night I arrived in dc I checked into a hotel on a military post I had in mind to keep it for the eight day duration of my stay but he insisted that I should save money he has plenty of room in his house so I was like if you don’t mind I know at this point it seemed naive and you the reader are so dam right I was suppose to meet him on sun but he had a work or some kind of family matter to take care of so i had no problem with meting up on Monday I was resting in my room and I received a call from him inviting me to my birthday dinner early since my birthday was on the 28th of that mo I gladly accepted so I’m kind of like a tom boy the way I dress at times so I really wanted to look smokin hot for this guy so I got my fubu skirt with a nice matching shirt and for the first time in almost a yr wore my high heel swade boots I did not want to have any issues so I slipped some dr shols protectors in my shoes he showed up to the door with a beautiful pink rose I gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek we set in the room and talked for a bit while I was finishing up getting ready I told him i was no expert in heels but I’m willing to try this out for a bit lol! we proceed in his car to the down town area dc was wonderful at night it was a quickie tour but i seemed to be just lost in time from being around him I kept him laughing all the way to dinner. we arrived at our destination somewhere in downtown Washington it was crank where we where there where guys on boats partying on the water side it was quite and adventure and this is where the flicker of the fire started i had no idea where he was taking me and after a while these heels where starting to be a pain in my ass so if any chick out there feels me when your in pain you either kick those bitches off or you just deal with the pain for keeps sake and I did option number two I think I still walked pretty well despite the pain but he was seeming to take a notice of it in a bad way and instead of doing the gentleman thing and linking arms or slowing down in a huge crowd he completely walks three paces ahead of me i told him to slow down and after the whole shared is over he told me that I did that because two girls where laughing at you because you looked like you where in pain walking in those heels I stopped and thought where is the valor in that I was doing this for you jerk wad but that was over he apologized and I forgave it I just thought it was first date jitters so we got back to the room we where chill in for a bit and next thing you know where making out and doing the dirty deed if ya know what I mean and I’m about to get a little bit in detail here so if your grossed out or appalled easily then I advise you not to read any further any was I started doing what my ex-husband and ex boy friends said I was famous for lmaooo!!! giving so head and I think I was doing a kick ass job he seemed to enjoy it but then I heard a strange sound snoring this bastard was sleeping!!!!!! I was never so angry in my life but once again instead of stupid ass me kicking him out for that I wanted to show him that I got some mad a game in that department although it has been a while that’s means he was going to get tow up lol! so we proceed to fucking like rabbits it felt more like a prison rape scene if felt like a over dominating yet frustrated barbarian was taking his way with me hey I did not knock it at the time because it was very hot but then came the time for me to show my stuff and he was just totally slamming me back where I could not do any thing so I annoyed as I was I just let the poor bastard finish and I told him I finished to make him feel ok the next day things where going fine we did groceries so I offered to cook for him since he was working so hard I asked him what dose he like he specifies I’m not picky so every thing that I seemed to pick he would intercept it in emotional distraught saying how many crabs so that have so here I’m drawing a red flag saying this guy is contradicting his self so I ignored it and just cooked something healthy we got home and Chris told me he was going to check up on the laundry and I could put the groceries away so I proceeded to do so when I put them away he comes back only to look in the cabinets having a shit fit yelling at me saying why did you put the groceries there I’m sitting there stunned like what the fuck is this man tripin about he then went on ranting that this is his roommates cabinet and don’t put shit there granting the fact that he did not tell me that that is where his roommates store there food my feelings where hurt at that point because I felt like here I’m trying to make a great impression with this guy and its not working in my favor he comes back and apologies for the issue but it was only the beginning of my birthday ordeal we had a great dinner and went to bed for the first ten min I’m about to sleep in a new bed I kind of toss a bit after finally settling I turn over to hold him and gave him a light kiss good night he lets out a sigh of awwwww so iam thinking I’m doing the cool thing here then a min later he totally turn bi polar on me and says I cant sleep in the same bed as you move to much after that came to a small part of my sinces and said he man I don’t think were going to work out you have been lashing at me since I got here and all I have been doing on my vacation is be nice to you Chris replies "hey baby don't be like that" then says sorry to hear that . at this point I’m realizing after five yrs of knowing this person he seems to be a few bolts short of a tool kit so I went to sleep on the couch the next day he acts like nothing is wrong so I went back to normal and went touring the dc area now mind you I’m skipping basic stuff for the sake of you going blind from reading so much so lets skip to four days pass hell day any ways all this treatment that he was throwing at me was less then to be desired so I finally texted him and gave him a rough draft of what was on my mind and I did not text him that whole day he proceeded to come home early that day I decided to do some more nice things that I knew he would be ok with I had to do some of my own laundry so I did his as well and had dinner cooked after touring when I got home he acted normal again which means he must have taking his crazy medication but by that time I felt such anxiety as to him yelling at me about something else I just stayed quite and out of his way he kept asking me if I was ok because he knew dam well what was up I told him I’m fine nothing is wrong and told him in in effort to divert the conversation that I did some groceries and replaced what you where out of and did some laundry he seemed grateful then once again went into ignoring me and texting people that he clamed where work friends I personally believe some where others I believe that they where friends that he was talking about me to you know its always feels awkward that he was not really paying attention to a gust that came out of her way to see him after I that I had enough I know if I wanted this to work or not work I would have had to tell Chris what was on my mind so in a claim manner we started to talk little did I know I woke a demon from hell with only the question why are you acting this way if you where not sure about us? you don’t have to go about it this way he told me well niki I see you as a sister I replied back, " well you don’t fuck your sisters idiot by that time I was hurt and disappointed and putting together the peaces that I was used and this is why he was acting the way he was toward me I started to cry because I did love this guy and its hard for me to love because five yrs where involved he begin to say to me you got your expectations way to high you did not think we where goanna be head over hills in love with you huh !!!with a smirk !! I replied well the way you where spiting out game and saying all these words expressing your love for me that makes you a liar if i would have known that then I would have came up here on different terms and we could have went from there the he went off in this baby fit I gave you everything gig I’m like are you kidding me you have given me nothing but grief since I have been here then he states if you know how to shut up and not talk so much maybe we would get along I then paused and said excuse me and at that point I knew he was just making up shit to get out of what he started so as hurt as I was after all the time I invested in this guy i started to cry because of that pain of going out of your way to see someone special and it was not his money it was my hard earned money and my vacation time like he gave a shit he kept chasing me around the house I just wanted to get away from him so he then lashes out if you want to get away from me get the fuck out of my house I was like wohhhh your going just a bit to far where am I going to go he really did not care where I went so he's screaming get out and I’m like not until I get my things and he then turns it around to me refusing to leave his house I was like oh my god this cant be happing i just want to get my stuff then he says I’m calling the cops then he turns around again and says I will pay for the ticket to get you home for the inconvenience and my ticket was booked on orbitz so he talks with orbitz and he says ok lets pay for it the he flips out and changes his mind again granted I had my own credit card but the transactions where not clear to pay for my ticket home or escalated it so he refuses to pay for any thing I just want you out of my house felt like a used rag doll then he comes back again and says I can get a prepaid credit card but he had to be a work shortly he offers to give me a ride there I had my own car tho then he flips out again and opens the door for me as if we where on a first date by that time I like please I can open my own door we where having no luck with finding a card on the way back to the house my mother call me worried from the message she got from me and my mom would refuse to hang up until I was in a safe place no where around him so I was speaking then he proceeded to turn the car radio up full blast so my mother could not hear me but i was in no position to hang up on my mom at a scary time like this so I kept her on the phone no matter how loud he mad the radio his driving only got worse like if he where to get I an accident he would not care if we died I was praying that god would get me back to the house safe because we had some close calls as soon as I got home I rushed up stairs packed my bags crying my eyes out and got in my car and took off to look for a place to stay till I could catch a flight out because my family had wired funds to me when I took of the last thing i can remember was that eerie look on his face when i drove away horrified but before then I told him square in the face you will harvest every dirty deed you have ever tried to fool a girl with I may not be around to see it but it will happen with a smock look on his face as if he where invincible he looked away i was just thanking god I got away from that situation because who knows what he could have done to me out of anger if he was driving so recklessly not to mention that one of the next door neighbors came up to me and told me what his plan was and that he has a bad angry history with women I finally drove around for two and a half hrs till I found a cheep motel to stay in I was relieved and grateful that I was in a better place next thing you know I got my hotel room key singed the papers and looked up I noticed it was mid night and there rung in my birthday I though to my self this is the best birthday gift ever I got a glimpse of hell and escaped with my life on the brighter side I managed to catch a flight out the next day so I had a couple of hours before I left the state capitol I got my lazy ass out of bed early check out of the hotel and still got a chance to finish my trip I saw the white house and all its glory it was a very proud moment for me so you did not destroy shit for me if this blog happens to get around to you captain psycho I still had a great time dispite the odds and to top it off guys I got on my plane with a smile and sent him the last text of forgiveness saying all is well I forgive your actions not because of any romantic interest it was because what my mother told me a quote by Oscar wildes ,“Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.” well that’s my space horror story if I could go back in time I would have stress so much more to have phone conversations then just to have them at his convince and probity went up there on a friend status then falling for his dirty trick into thinking it was so much more.